Let me set the scene. I don’t see work as one job forever. I see it like seasons. That’s what folks mean by “lifespan careers.” You grow, you pause, you switch, you start again. I’ve lived it. And yeah, it’s messy sometimes—but it works.
If you’d like the blow-by-blow version of how that season-by-season mindset unfolds, you can dive into my longer field report here: “I Tried Lifespan Careers” – A First-Person Review.
Here’s my take, with real moments from my life, not just buzzwords.
High school hustle: grease, cash, and fast hands
My first gig was at a local pizza place when I was 16. I burned my forearm on the oven twice in one week. I learned speed, eye contact, and how to talk to mad people without crying. I also learned to count a till. That sounds small, but it taught me rhythm—take an order, check a ticket, keep the line moving. Funny thing? That rhythm shows up later in office work. Meetings feel like rush hour—just cleaner.
I also worked two weekends a month at a thrift shop. I built window displays with whatever showed up in the donation bins. That turned into a tiny portfolio before I even knew the word “portfolio.”
Early 20s: wandering on purpose
I bounced. Barista. Front desk at a gym. Seasonal at Target on the returns desk. I thought that looked flaky. It wasn’t. I was learning quick scripts, conflict mapping, and systems.
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On the side, I started a blog. I took phone pics of small businesses and wrote short blurbs. A bakery asked me to redo their menu board. They paid me in cupcakes. Fair trade? At the time, yes.
Quarter-life curveball: layoffs, a shaky hand, and a plan
My first “real” office job—admin at a small health clinic—ended in a budget cut. My hands shook when I packed my box. I had rent due. I felt dumb, and also mad. So I made a rule: every job teaches me one hard skill and one soft skill, or I pass.
I used free stuff first. Local library career coach on Tuesdays. A state workforce center workshop on resumes that pass the robot (ATS). I rewrote mine with simple verbs: schedule, track, ship, fix. Guess what? I got more calls.
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30s: switching to UX (and yes, it was clumsy)
I kept hearing “UX design.” I didn’t know the tools, but I knew people. That counts. I took the Google UX Design certificate at night. I learned wireframes, user flows, and how to ask better questions. I also did three fake projects to build a portfolio. Then I did one real one: I redesigned the online order form for that same pizza place. We made the toppings list readable on a phone. Cart drop-off fell. The owner hugged me and slipped me a free slice. That was my first case study.
I told my story in plain words. “I manage stakeholders (the owner), run fast tests (we tried two versions), and track a simple metric (abandon rate).” No fluff. I got a junior UX role at a small startup. My manager liked that I could talk to people who don’t speak “design.”
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Mid-30s: burnout, caregiving, and a pause I didn’t choose
My mother got sick. I left my job to be her weekday driver, cook, and laugh coach. Caregiving is project work with heart. Medication schedule? That’s a roadmap. Insurance calls? That’s stakeholder management under stress. I kept notes in a simple table and made a one-pager for new nurses. It wasn’t glamorous, but it was real service design.
When I came back to work, I felt rusty. I joined a returnship (12 weeks, part-time). I used the STAR method to explain the gap: Situation, Task, Action, Result. I was honest. The hiring lead nodded. People get life.
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Late 30s into now: from maker to mentor
These days I’m a product designer who also leads small teams. I still make wireframes, but I also run backlog grooming, set sprint goals, and coach juniors. I track one metric for the team that isn’t revenue: cycle time. Faster isn’t always better; cleaner is better. Funny twist—I also review tools and gear on the side. That scrappy thrift-shop eye never left.
I host “office hours” two Fridays a month. College kids. Career changers. Parents coming back. We talk about money, pride, and fear. We also talk about snacks. It helps.
What worked for me (and might click for you)
- Treat each season like a class. Pick one hard skill, one soft skill. Name them.
- Use real projects, even tiny ones. A menu board counts. So does a church flyer.
- Explain gaps with care, not shame. Show how you kept your mind moving.
- Build a one-page story for each job using STAR. Keep it plain. Short beats cute.
- Track one number you can explain to a kid. “Fewer drop-offs” beats “engagement.”
Where it stings (but you can plan for it)
- Switching tracks can cut pay at first. I took a step back for six months. It hurt.
- Friends may not get it. “Why leave a stable job?” They mean well. Smile. Keep going.
- Portfolios take time. My first one looked like a school project. Because it was.
Tools I actually used, not just heard about
- Library career coach and quiet study rooms
- State workforce center resume workshop and mock interview day
- Google UX Design certificate and Figma for wireframes
- LinkedIn for informational chats (I sent short, kind notes; no essays)
- Notion for a skills tracker and a brag doc
- A simple budget template so the switch wouldn’t wreck me
- A cheap ring light for video calls (yes, it mattered)
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A quick “review” of the lifespan career mindset
- The good: It fits real life. Caregiving, kids, moves, health—nothing breaks you.
- The tricky: It asks for patience and a thick skin. You’ll repeat yourself a lot.
- The surprise: Small gigs stack into big skill. Pizza line to product line—go figure.
Would I recommend it? Yep. Not because it’s easy, but because it’s honest. Work shifts as you grow. You’re allowed to change. You’re allowed to rest. You’re allowed to try again.
You know what? If you want a nudge, start with this: write down your last three jobs and pull one hard skill and one soft skill from each. Put them on a sticky note. That’s your story starter. Simple. Real. Yours.
And if nobody has told you this yet—season by season is still a steady path.